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Instant Messaging: gibt es ein Leben danach?

11. November 2007 um 21:29 | boss | In Technologie | Kommentieren

Über Wohl und Wehe dieser Überallkommunikation über das Internet haben wir uns ja schon mehrfach ausgelassen. Ich selbst habe mich schon öfter dabei erwischt, wie ich fast die gesamte Fläche eines 2. Monitors mit den Buddy-Lists und Chat Fenstern von Skype, ICQ, Adium und GoogleTalk bestückt habe. Sicher helfen solche “All in One” Applikationen wie z.B. Jabber, aber die Grundprobleme dieser Anwendungen werden damit nicht gelöst. Was ich damit meine? Eine Form von Abhängigkeit, permanente Erreichbarkeit bis hin zu gestörtem Kommunikationsverhalten (oder was sind Emoticons in Offline-Kommunikation? ). Auf den Punkt bringt es auch meiner Sicht eine wirklich gelungene Top-7-List der “Deadly Sins” beim IM (gefunden bei 43-Folders):

1. Do not use it
   It’s hard to envision, but life without IM is possible. Remember the phone? Remember face-to-face conversations? They still exist.
2. Do not make yourself available 24/7
   If you really can’t let go of chat, designate IM office hours. Limit yourself to two hours maximum a day and give yourself a curfew. You’ll get fewer interruptions and maybe even get to bed earlier. Remember, not chatting every moment means you’ll have more to talk about when you see your friends again.
3. Do not expect a response
   After sending someone an IM, never expect a quick response or any at all. The beauty of IM is that it lets you have “slow conversations,” allowing people to respond whenever they want.
4. Do not send urgent requests
   Just because someone is online at 2am doesn’t mean that person is available for a work or family emergency. If you’re not willing to make a phone call, then maybe it’s not a real emergency.
5. Do not be a buddy slut
   Is your buddy list as long as Heidi Fleiss’s black book? According to the Pareto principle, you spend 80 percent of your chat time with 20 percent of your buddies. Identify the buddies you don’t chat with anymore and delete them. If your buddy list is still overflowing, organize them into groups by level of importance or frequency of conversations.
6. Do not broadcast your screen name
   Never ever put your screen name on a website, blog, or social networking profile. This keeps your buddy list short and prevents stalkers from creeping you out.
7. Do not forward chat messages to your phone
   AOL Instant Messenger now lets you forward IM messages you receive to your phone when you’re not at a computer. I call this the electronic dog leash feature. If you have it on, turn it off now. Free yourself, run wild, and go play.

BRB – via: 43-Folders

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